A lot of people they struggle financially, and they think to themselves, you know what? I cannot become rich because don’t have enough money. Or I don’t have enough capital. I don’t have the right idea, or I am not in the right industry. Or I don’t have the right connections. Now we learn how to become rich by avoid something.
You know what? From my experience that is not what holds most people back. What holds most people back is this one thing. And that is: ego. That is right ego. Now you may be thinking no, I don’t have any ego. What are you talking about? I am just struggling financially I don’t have money. No that is not true. You see ego comes in many disguises.
When I was broke I had many, many of these ego’s that are holding me back. Today I am share with you 13 of them. Comment below and see if you recognize any one of them. And if you think you don’t have any, which is exactly the problem.
1. THE BLAME EGO
See lame people blame people. Their blame ego says well it is not my fault, it is the governments fault, it is the economy. It is the industry, it is my co-workers, it is my parents, oh you know what, I come from a dysfunctional family and that is why I will never become rich. Or all my friends oh that is why I will never become rich. Or because my supervisor, he is holding me back and that is why I could never become rich.
See the blame ego always says it is someone else fault. Their always pointing fingers. And remember when you are pointing finger to someone else, one finger pointing out; guess what three fingers pointing back. Do you have this ego and you blame other people or make excuses by you? Then maybe the one that is holding you back.
2. THE KNOW-IT-ALL EGO
See when I was broke I thought I know it all. I don’t need to read books, I know what I am doing. I was starting all these businesses and guess what? None of them work. Because I thought I knew what I was talking about. Guess what, I didn’t know shit, okay. You don’t know shit. See the know-it-all always thinking they know everything.
Keep doing the same thing again and again, and expect a different result. That is the very definition of insanity. The know it all ego. Before starting any work ask yourself how can I become rich.
3. THE FEARFUL EGO
You see what holds a lot of people back is fear. Fear of success, fear of failure, fear of making a mistake. Think about it before you do something you are saying to yourself well what if it doesn’t work? Or what if I lose money? And what if I make a mistake. Then what happens what if I don’t know what to do, what if I can’t figure this out? The what if, what if, what if, what if. What if it does work? You see always remember fear is an acronym. It stands for false evidence appearing real.
It is nothing more than a made up story in your own mind. So do you have the fearful ego holding you back?
4. THE COMFORT ZONE EGO
It says I am comfortable. I am happy where I am, I am content. Things are fine, you know I don’t need to be that ambitious, well that is the problem. Your income zone is your comfort zone. Your comfort zone is your income zone. When you get complacent, when you get comfortable you are not growing towards become rich.
Remember when you are not growing you are dying. So do you have this ego that is holding you back right now? And what are you doing about it?
5. THE JUDGMENTAL EGO
I want you to imagine this. You are walking down the street and suddenly you hear vroom-vroom! And suddenly you see a red Ferrari Vroom! Just drove by. What’s the first thought that comes through your mind.
Comment below, no filter, no edits just comment below. What is the very first thought that comes to your mind? My guess is chances are he is an asshole. Who does he think he is? So cocky, so selfish, probably a greedy bastard.
Actually you know what, probably not his money anyway it is his daddy’s money. Or if it i’s a lady, a woman, oh that is a gold digger right? All these negativities, guess what? That is you judging other people.
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My question to you is how do you know? It is all made up stories in your mind. And you say oh he is not that good. She is not that pretty. He is not that smart. You are judging other people; you are projecting your own insecurities, your own values onto other people. How do you know that man is not a hardworking man, he is not a good husband, he is not a family man or someone who is worked 20 to 30 years to get to where he is at this point?
You judge, you come to your own conclusions. Before even talking to the person you see how your mind works. How are you be successful, how are you ever become rich if that is the image that you have for people who are successful.
6. THE EXCUSES EGO.
You see you can make money, or you can make excuses. But you cannot do both you will not become rich. An excuse is nothing more than a well-planned lie. You see the excuses ego says well, I can’t afford it. I don’t have money. Or that is too far, or that is too, too difficult, too I don’t have enough experience. It is always I can’t, or I don’t know how.
You see you could have a million excuses why you cannot do something. You only need one damn good reason why you must do it.
Number seven the people pleasing ego. Well I just make sure everybody’s happy. Everybody’s okay. Yeah I know but I don’t rock the boat. As long as everybody’s okay then I am okay. You try to please people too much. You always put other people first. Nothing wrong with that. But sometimes in life you have to put yourself first. Even when you are flying on an airplane, you put on your own oxygen mask first before you help someone else.
Sometimes in life you have to put yourself first. You have to be a little bit selfish, so you can be generous. Comment below if you know what I am talking about. You always put your family first; you always put other people first.
My question to you is what about you? And you might think you are so selfless. No you are being selfish. That is people pleasing ego in play.
8. THE JUSTIFICATION EGO
You justify why you don’t do something or justify why you can’t do it. You know I am too young, I am too old, I am an immigrant. I speak with an accent, I don’t have enough experience. Or maybe you know what, it is too late I am married, I have got husband, I have got a wife, I have kids. I sacrifice for my kids.
And you know what I never wanted it anyway. That is a lie. You justify your failures. Don’t use your kids as an excuse. Use them as fuel, as your motivation why you must do something not why you can’t do something. Stop justifying.
9. THE JEALOUS EGO
Have you ever said stuff like this: Oh rich people are greedy, they are selfish. Oh you know what, it is not that big of a deal anyway. It is jealousy. Don’t criticize what you have not done, or what you are not capable to do.
Don’t judge sometimes I will see it on YouTube. People judging this and judging that, I don’t really give a damn. But they say oh but they… How about you go do it? You upload a video, you build a channel. You go impact millions people’s lives. Until you have done it don’t let this jealous ego hold you back.
10. FAKE EGO
Have you ever met someone that you don’t know them but the minute you meet with them they just have this weird kind of vibe that you don’t trust him or her? Or they feel very fake, that you feel like oh my god they are just so fake.
They are so superficial that you don’t make that connection, that they are not genuine. Or have you ever met someone that just the minute you meet with them you make that instant connection and then there is that trust, there’s that bond? That you feel this person is sincere.
The fake ego maybe that is you. Maybe that you are very good at putting on this mask. You are very good that in one circumstance you can be this person, and in other scenario you become a different person. And then here you become another person. And before you know it you have done it for so many years, you don’t know who you are anymore. You don’t know which one is the real you. Which one is the real you? You’ve lost yourself, be yourself. Everyone else is taken, be yourself.
I would rather people hate me for who I am than love me for whom I am not. So don’t use the fake ego. You don’t need it to be successful.
11. THE SHY EGO
The shy ego says well um, I am just shy. I am just an introvert; I am not good with people. And I am just like, It is okay I don’t like to talk I will just be like that. But you use that as an excuse. You use that to stay in your own bubble; you use that to stay in your own shell.
Guess what; believe it or not I was a very shy person. I was an introvert. I was the kid when I was going through high school I had no friends, I didn’t want to talk to people. Because I couldn’t speak the language, I was so afraid. Even now sometimes when I go to meet a lot of people, I still have that little bit of awkwardness, it is normal. But I don’t let that hold me back.
I know that if I want to be more successful, if I want to be rich I have to get outside of my comfort zone. I have to overcome my shyness. That is how I can do what I do. So don’t use that your personality as an excuse to hold you back.
12. THE OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS EGO
Be honest, do you worry a lot what people think of you? Do you worry how people perceive you? You know you do something but oh, what will people think of that? What will people think of my action; even deep down you know that is the right thing to do. But you don’t do it because you have other people’s opinions ego.
You let other people’s opinions stop you from doing what you know is the right thing. Those people they could be your family, they could be your relatives, they could be your friends, they could be your high school buddies. It doesn’t matter. It can be social media, you are uploading a video you are posting to social media, you are making noise, and you are getting attention suddenly you get a few haters.
Guess what? You stop. People don’t care about you. Haters and trolls who add no value in your life and some keyboard warrior, some losers post a comment and you are like oh, I guess that hurts my feeling, and you stop doing what is right.
You stop doing what is making you successful. Stop worrying about other people’s opinions. It is just their opinions, it Doesn’t matter. Critics, haters, haters hate. It doesn’t matter you do what you know is right.
13. DO IT YOURSELF EGO
Yes, the do it yourself ego says this: if you want something done you got to do it yourself. Wow they will never do it as good as the way that I do it. Oh I don’t trust him, or I don’t trust her. If you want something done you got to do it yourself.
What you are really saying is I don’t trust other people. That is ego, which is a form of ego that holds you back. Because nothing great is accomplished just with one person. It requires other people, it requires team work. So do it yourself ego, this is probably one of the most common egos that hold most people back. That holds most entrepreneurs back. That is holding them back from going to that next level. Because they are control freaks. They are this massive do it yourself ego that is holding them back.
So comment below how many of these egos, and be honest, how many of these egos do you have out of the 13? The 13 egos that are preventing most people from becoming rich. Comment below now if you say I got none of them. Not one that is probably the biggest ego that I have ever seen. If you say you have got none of them.
Because I had a lot of these, I still have some of these. I still have to work through them myself. If you want my help, to help you to eliminate some of these egos in your life that are preventing you, that are holding you back.
By the end of the seven weeks, you will not even recognize yourself because you will be able to have the self-awareness to know where these egos came from, why you have them, and how you do eliminate them so you could get to the place where you want to be.
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